易怒父母养出来的孩子，真让人心疼！

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作者：俅俅阅读

分类：悦读发布时间：2021-03-25 10:55:26 752次阅读 父母好的脾气，才是家庭最好的风水，也是留给孩子最宝贵的财富。......

<p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这两天，微博话题榜</span><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">#易怒父母养出来的孩子#</span></strong><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">热度高居不下，网友们的评论也都着实扎心。</span></span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><img src="/uploads/20210325/6d23262b61bc4855f5175a57cc327699.png" data-filename="filename" style="width: 445px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></span></span><span style="font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px;">“害怕犯错，害怕冒犯，害怕冲突，害怕被责怪，所以唯唯诺诺，畏手畏脚”</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“变得很易怒、很爱哭、很恐惧做错事，为小事担惊受怕却无法改变”</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“真的不想做调和了，想赶快离开这个家……”</span><img src="/uploads/20210325/d55a6bdcb8f91fceab446c6ce004cf41.jpg" data-filename="filename" style="width: 450px;"><img src="/uploads/20210325/a7397b7e53db3a4b73de24402bfb99d9.png" data-filename="filename" style="width: 450px;"><img src="/uploads/20210325/d55a6bdcb8f91fceab446c6ce004cf41.jpg" data-filename="filename" style="width: 450px;"></p><p style="margin: 25px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">从小父母脾气不好、容易发怒，给孩子们造成了很大的心理伤害。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">都说，父母的脾气，决定孩子的一生。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">易怒父母养出来的孩子，大多敏感多疑、自卑懦弱、压抑自己、讨好他人。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; 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max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">易怒父母养出来的孩子，很让人心疼。</span></strong></span></section></li></ul></section><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我小姑家的孩子，今年7岁。在我的眼里，她是一个特别乖巧懂事的孩子。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">一次，我带着她和我的朋友、还有朋友的孩子一起吃饭。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我们点了一盘水果沙拉，里面有西瓜，其实那个是她特别喜欢吃的，结果她知道朋友家的孩子喜欢吃，就拼命地往那个孩子的盘子里放。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我就问她：你不是也喜欢吃吗？</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">结果她说：没关系，给她吃就好。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这时我才明白，表面的乖巧懂事是压抑自己需求的结果。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">一个才7岁的孩子，就学会了看别人眼色，总是想着去照顾其他人，而忽视自己的真实感受，真的很让人心疼。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">还有一次，她来我家玩。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我抬起手臂想拿一个东西，结果把她吓得一激灵，身子就往起蜷缩，脚步也往后退，当时给我也吓了一跳。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">和她聊天，我才知道都是因为她妈妈性格太强势，导致她总是战战兢兢。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">因为害怕别人不高兴而发脾气就委屈自己，也学会了小心翼翼地避免妈妈随时随地的情绪爆炸。 </span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">心理专家说：长期面对父母暴躁的脾气，孩子就会变得脆弱敏感、自卑自闭，甚至引发心理抑郁。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母不会好好控制情绪，让孩子为自己的坏情绪买单。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">即便在步入成年后，这些性格弱点也会贯穿他们的生活，不会与人交往、不敢表达自己的想法，甚至是不敢恋爱、不敢结婚。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">就像网友</span><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">@远行的塞琳</strong></span><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">说的：</span></span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“原生家庭给人带来的影响真的是挥之不去的，不管多少年，它都会伴随着你。”</span><img src="/uploads/20210325/ea8783ff65406c7e1c76343d092106f3.jpg" data-filename="filename" style="width: 450px;"></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母暴躁的脾气，就像是精神病毒，慢慢侵蚀孩子的心，会带来一辈子的心理阴影。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); 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margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 2.2em; max-width: 100%; list-style-type: circle; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><li style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">不能控制情绪的父母，谈不上真的爱孩子。</span></strong></span></section></li></ul></section><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">微博网友分享自己在高铁上亲眼目睹的经历。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">一个小男孩拿着妈妈给的钱去买盒饭，小男孩兴高采烈地买回来三份盒饭，还特意买了妈妈最喜欢的宫保鸡丁。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">却没想到妈妈看到孩子买回来三份盒饭，瞬间火冒三丈，还质问孩子“我只让你买一份，为什么买了三份？”</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">爸爸也在旁边附和着说儿子的不对，儿子眼里噙着泪水，非常委屈。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">最后，母亲还是不顾孩子的情绪，强硬地把另外两份盒饭退了回去。</span><img src="/uploads/20210325/5024d9ee14a8f8f782dc0597811e1771.jpg" data-filename="filename" style="width: 380px;"></p><p style="margin: 25px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">隔着屏幕都能感受父母发怒时孩子那份沉重和压抑的心情。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">网友纷纷留言表示对这个孩子的心疼。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“明明可以对孩子好好说的”“我父母就这样，造成我现在都不会好好表达爱”</span><img src="/uploads/20210325/67eb0a3dff60affad75c20cd8b5477bc.jpg" data-filename="filename" style="width: 450px;"></p><p style="margin: 25px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">不会好好说话的父母，不懂得顾及孩子的情绪和感受，他们只是更爱自己罢了。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">在之前的综艺节目《旋风孝子》中，陈乔恩和母亲相处时几乎全程零交流，让观众疑惑不解。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">陈乔恩说：</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“因为母亲经常压力很大，从小母亲对我就是棍棒教育，导致现在我不知道怎么跟她讲话，我怕她随时会打我。”</span><img src="/uploads/20210325/84c289748ed5891aae61d3aab3b47c3d.jpg" style="width: 450px;" data-filename="filename"></p><p style="margin: 25px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这让陈乔恩随时都对母亲充满了恐惧，虽然一直渴望能够和母亲好好相处，但还是无法逾越心理的鸿沟。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">而陈乔恩母亲的反应就像所有中国传统妈妈一样。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">她觉得她的脾气、她的严厉都只是在爱孩子，却从来没想过这种教育对于孩子来说到底是不是母爱。</span><img src="/uploads/20210325/0477e0fee06e25d195d883dd59909f3c.png" style="width: 425px;" data-filename="filename"></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">爱是温柔、是理解、是体贴。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">不能控制情绪的父母，谈不上真的爱孩子。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">或许，他们只想以爱的名义控制孩子而已。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; 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margin-left: 0px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 2.2em; max-width: 100%; list-style-type: circle; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><li style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我们都需要一场与父母的和解。</span></strong><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></section></li></ul></section><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">《做家务的男人》第三期节目中， 魏大勋讲起自己童年的经历。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">一次，魏大勋犯错误躲起来，魏爸爸找到魏大勋后，不等孩子解释，也不关注孩子的情绪，上来就是一顿暴打。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">回忆往事，魏大勋虽嘴角带着微笑，但眼睛已经湿润，内心无比盼望着与父亲的和解。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">而魏爸爸却选择用装睡来逃避这个话题，虽然妈妈出来打圆场说父亲当时是恨铁不成钢，但现场气氛一度尴尬。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">主持人说：魏爸爸一直不愿意聊这个话题，一直在逃避，这样是没办法解开魏大勋的心结的。<br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><img src="/uploads/20210325/71118af6ffd3515b269b55bdf56628ba.jpg" data-filename="filename" style="width: 450px;"><img src="/uploads/20210325/75a554f27b1a720483b630d1d37a6322.jpg" data-filename="filename" style="width: 450px;"></p><p style="margin: 25px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">多年积累的心结，只会在一次次的回忆中反复伤害自己。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">或许，我们都需要一场和父母的和解，如果无法原谅，不如选择放下。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">知乎上一位匿名网友说了她的经历：</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">那是我整个昏暗童年的开始，没法正常交流，能正常说话超过三句都是奇迹。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">不论什么时候，只要他不满意就直接两巴掌，再来一阵拳打脚踩，还边杂夹着各种脏话，小时候一直对父亲充满了怨恨。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">最后，这名网友说：</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“说实话，长大后我挺能理解的，只是他从小受到的教育的局限性，他自己控制不住自己的脾气。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">他根本不关心心理上的教育和影响。还有中国刻板父子关系的根深蒂固，他也不懂得该怎么表达爱。”</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">《与父母和解》书中写道：“不要用父母的错误惩罚自己，要放下不属于自己的遗憾。”</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">希望所有受过原生家庭伤害的人都能坚强一点，勇敢走出心理的阴霾，才能遇见更好的自己。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="90386" data-color="rgb(216, 40, 33)" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; 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font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><ul class="list-paddingleft-2" style="margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 2.2em; max-width: 100%; list-style-type: circle; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><li style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母的好脾气，是家庭最宝贵的风水。</span></strong></span></section></li></ul></section><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">《原生家庭》书中有这样一段话：</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子对语言信息以及非语言信息的吸收，就像是海绵吸水一般，会完全不加选择地全盘吸收。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">他们倾听父母的言谈、观察父母的举止，并且模仿父母的行为。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子是父母的影子。</span><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">坏脾气的父母，可能会毁掉三代人。</span></strong></span></span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">看过一篇报道：</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">有位名叫Charlie Tyrell的电影制片人，在整理父亲Greg的遗物时发现Greg的母亲，是一个脾气极为暴躁，又有极强控制欲的人，而究其原因是Greg的外公就是一个这样的人。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">于是，Greg的母亲一面痛恨着自己的父亲，一面又深受父亲性格的影响，不断地模仿、复刻，最终在自己生儿育女后，也活成了和父亲一模一样的人。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">好在父亲Greg意识到脾气暴躁对孩子一生的影响，才给Charlie Tyrell营造了快乐有爱的童年。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">易怒的父母，是孩子一生的悲剧；而温和的父母，才是孩子一生的福气。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">晚清重臣曾国藩主张“家和万事兴”。他在《曾国藩家书》中曾写道：家庭不可说利害话。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">就是告诫弟弟们治家时要坚持一条重要原则——不能说利害的话，以免给家人造成不可逆转的心灵伤害。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">曾国藩的家教对兄弟及子女都有着深远的积极影响，为曾氏家族带来了经久不衰的精神宝藏，而这也是曾氏绵延数十代人才辈出、家族兴旺的重要原因。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母好的脾气，才是家庭最好的风水，也是留给孩子最宝贵的财富。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">有人说：幸福的童年会治愈一生，而不幸的童年需要用一生来治愈。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">从今天起，希望我们都可以摆脱原生家庭的泥淖，放下过去，做一个自信阳光善良勇敢的人。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 16px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; 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